Sunday, September 19, 2010

Slack Ass Parenting...WTF??

So right now I'm on vacation in my hometown of NYC. As I've been here without my normal means of transportation which is my own vehicle, I've been using public transportation such as the bus and train. Well, earlier today I had the displeasure of being in the same subway car as a woman accompanied by her four children. The amount of children she had meant nothing to me, it was the way she conducted herself and how she controlled the actions of her children.....she didnt. She treated that subway car as if it was her own damn livingroom. Not to the sense of lounging in pajamas and watching tv. I mean she yelled to her children as if they were at home and they acted as if they were too. First of all, she did one of the things that irk the shit out of me as a parent. She was negotiating with bad behavior and pleading with her loud and unruly children. "Would you sit down dammit?!"; "Why you do that for?!"; "Get over here I already told you too many times!" and on and on and on. And I mean she is screaming this shit. And they're screaming right back. Falling out on the dirty ass floor or the car, yelling to the top of their lungs. At a couple points she even put the oldest one in a headlock to keep him quiet but she's still yelling at the others. Even the one in the stroller was wilding out and she laughed like it was the cutest thing ever. As a mother with some damn sense, it was disgraceful.

They all acted like monkeys but they were all dressed like hip hop and R&B stars. And to add insult to injury, other parents with their children on the train were being asked by their own offspring what the problem with those kids and mother was. Some parents need to get right and step their game up.

I can't blink correctly when my children do the slightest disrespectful or out of proper behavioral thing in public or even at home. Especially in public. And since this is my blog and my opinion on subjects such as this I'm going to say what the fuck I feel. Should I ever need to, I fuck my sons up!! And I say sons because my daughter is only 8 months old. But my sons know they can show out if they want to meet a well deserved ass whooping. Not because I don't want them to have fun or be kids. But because I have taught them to behave and a breech of agreement causes the ramifications of a belt to thhe behind. There's a time to reason and a time to assert your parental duty of a stern session to physical discipline. Shit! The couple of wayward mothers I saw during this trip doing the same shit need an ass cutting too!

I can however, only control my parental actions. So to the woman on the train, I hope you do better asap because theirs still hope. You just have to put in the work. All parents committed to making sure your children represent themselves and your parenting well, positively and effectively, say "Aye"!
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